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Remembered Joy

Don’t grieve for me, for now I’m free!
I follow the plan God laid for me.
I saw His face, I heard His call,
I took His hand and left it all…
I could not stay another day,
To love, to laugh, to work or play;
Tasks left undone must stay that way.
And if my parting has left a void,
Then fill it with remembered joy.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss…
Ah yes, these things I, too, shall miss.
My life’s been full, I’ve savored much:
Good times, good friends, a loved-one’s touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief –
Don’t shorten yours with undue grief.
Be not burdened with tears of sorrow,
Enjoy the sunshine of the morrow.

-An Irish Blessing.

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On 11/5/2020 at 4:45 PM, Duluth said:

Remembered Joy

Don’t grieve for me, for now I’m free!
I follow the plan God laid for me.
I saw His face, I heard His call,
I took His hand and left it all…
I could not stay another day,
To love, to laugh, to work or play;
Tasks left undone must stay that way.
And if my parting has left a void,
Then fill it with remembered joy.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss…
Ah yes, these things I, too, shall miss.
My life’s been full, I’ve savored much:
Good times, good friends, a loved-one’s touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief –
Don’t shorten yours with undue grief.
Be not burdened with tears of sorrow,
Enjoy the sunshine of the morrow.

-An Irish Blessing.

I believe I will use this when we have a service. Thank You.

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Just now, railfancwb said:

You don’t “get over it” for such losses, but you do get used to it.

God Bless as you travel that path. 

This is true, but when it comes to parents we expect to outlive them. Other losses can be much harder. I lost a son many years ago, and more recently lost my younger brother to suicide. Those are definitely much harder.

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43 minutes ago, Walt Longmire said:

This is true, but when it comes to parents we expect to outlive them. Other losses can be much harder. I lost a son many years ago, and more recently lost my younger brother to suicide. Those are definitely much harder.

I lost my wife with no advance warning - her family ran to aneurysms - and it was over ten years before I could say or write her name without choking a bit.  

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2 hours ago, railfancwb said:

I lost my wife with no advance warning - her family ran to aneurysms - and it was over ten years before I could say or write her name without choking a bit.  

My mother was driven out of our home by  my father when I was 12.  I know this for a fact.  

After I got out of the Navy, I found her again.  I loved her very much.  6 months later she died instantly of an aneurysm.  I can't tell you to this day, just how much I miss her.

No loss impacts you as much as a totally unexpected one.  You have no time to mentally prepare for the inevitable.

Unfortunately, my wife believes in ignoring bad things, hoping they will go away.

 

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