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14 minutes ago, Fnfalman said:

https://www.yahoo.com/news/mother-china-criticized-taking-6-185106851.html
 

Chinese mom took her 6-years-old son to witness college entrance exam so that he will be ready for it. 

Their society is quite unforgiving of low scholastic performance.  I once read about how the school room was like nails in a board and the nail that "stuck out" was hammered down so no one was "different".

But you may know all about that already........................

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16 hours ago, janice6 said:

Their society is quite unforgiving of low scholastic performance.  I once read about how the school room was like nails in a board and the nail that "stuck out" was hammered down so no one was "different".

But you may know all about that already........................

I can’t speak about Chinese schools but the Vietnamese schools of the 1970s didn’t have GPAs or alphabetical grades.  We had class rankings from No. 1 down to the bottom.  Theoretically one can run a GPA of A- and still  ended up at the bottom of the class.  I’ve always ranked between 1 and 3.  One time my class ranking dropped to 5 and I thought my world ended.  
 

I was scared to come home with my GPA and showed my failure to my mom.  Lol.  That was in a class class f thirty-something students.  

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Speaking strictly about this mom and kid, I don't have a problem with what she did.   Maybe the kid is too young to remember, maybe not.  If the kid forgets, I expect if he asked to see it again, she'd take him again.  I have always appreciated getting to see something I would later be required to do, before I had to do it.  If I've seen the place , people, and the procedure, the only thing left for me to think about is my own performance.  It reduces the distraction of thoughts/questions about the environment and the process.  For example, my youngest is about to take her road test for her license... and I've had her use the on/off ramps where the highway portion is done, and I'll have her drive around the neighborhood where the normal road portion is conducted, before she has to take the test - one less distraction to her of driving someplace she's never driven before.  

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22 minutes ago, Mrs.Cicero said:

Speaking strictly about this mom and kid, I don't have a problem with what she did.   Maybe the kid is too young to remember, maybe not.  If the kid forgets, I expect if he asked to see it again, she'd take him again.  I have always appreciated getting to see something I would later be required to do, before I had to do it.  If I've seen the place , people, and the procedure, the only thing left for me to think about is my own performance.  It reduces the distraction of thoughts/questions about the environment and the process.  For example, my youngest is about to take her road test for her license... and I've had her use the on/off ramps where the highway portion is done, and I'll have her drive around the neighborhood where the normal road portion is conducted, before she has to take the test - one less distraction to her of driving someplace she's never driven before.  

THAT is really Cool Mrs. C.  Actual "participation"!!  Situational Awareness.  No ****. TOTALLY awesome.  I literally taught my daughter to Drive At an abandon Air Strip in Saudi 95-96...Then took her back to San Diego tor college...bought her a Used "Cool  Dad"  Eclipse Sport car...Stayed a week, and...Back to work...

Your daughter will pass the test.   

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1 hour ago, Swampfox762 said:

THAT is really Cool Mrs. C.  Actual "participation"!!  Situational Awareness.  No ****. TOTALLY awesome.  I literally taught my daughter to Drive At an abandon Air Strip in Saudi 95-96...Then took her back to San Diego tor college...bought her a Used "Cool  Dad"  Eclipse Sport car...Stayed a week, and...Back to work...

Your daughter will pass the test.   

That that's...why she's Mrs. C.  Showing us...how it's done.

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