Silentpoet Posted April 21, 2019 Share Posted April 21, 2019 19 hours ago, ASH said: my mom did that , she came to our house with hospice on a friday , she had congestive heart failure was 89 , she had living will etc, and she had defib put in years ago , and he told me you do not want to see that thing go off its different but people scream and he said its like kicked by a mule , and i had big fight as the cardio doc did not want to turn it off, big big fight . her kidneys were at 11% had a pic line with something in it , said she could live for days, week , month etc . me and my wife used baby monitors so one of use would hear her for anything , monday at 1:45 i held her hand and told her " mom you can go if you want to you have my blessing and go be with god" 20 seconds later she took last breathe. then the vulture grand children swooped in to say what do i get, and post on facebook my dear grandma passed today etc etc i will miss her so and i commented yeah you really missed her you have not called or come by in 10 years but you really missed her . the only good that came from this she passed peacefully and knew it was coming and i was ok because i do not think anyone wants to linger, and with her passing i never have to deal with dead beat family members stealing from her , only call for money but never came to house my mom would drive to meet them , she really had to big of a heart , then years back got irrevocable trust set up ,everything out her name, bank accounts i took over to pay her bills and deadbeats did not like that. anyway im gonna get worked up if i rambled on . i pray for any family that has vultures in the hen house. About two hours after my sister died I was at the police station dropping off her narcotics. She had stuff because of her cancer pain that people really like to abuse, fentanyl, etc. And I don't trust everybody who was around then. 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Al Czervik Posted April 22, 2019 Share Posted April 22, 2019 On 4/18/2019 at 9:19 PM, ASH said: my wife's mom who lives in PA is 90 my mom and her mom were best friends, my mom passed in 17 without alot withering away and i prayed for it because my mom always said i do not want to linger. well her mom has been bed ridden whole year living with my wife's older sister, they went up 2 weeks ago to see her but she did not know anyone . tonight she got the call she may not make it through the night . she has not eaten in 12 days , please say some prayers for this lady to pass on to the other side , she was proud and one of the best people you would ever meet , she would hate if she knew she has been like this . . thanks Prayers inbound, ASH. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ASH Posted May 4, 2019 Author Share Posted May 4, 2019 MIL is still holding on , bless her heart , nobody knows how but she eating tiny tiny bit everyday and does not talk now , i pray everyday for her to pass if not for the family but for her , ive been thru it but its new everytime , i just wanted to let people know i know some were wondering , 4 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janice6 Posted May 4, 2019 Share Posted May 4, 2019 When my mother was in her 40's she came home from shopping, and as she opened the front door, the medical people said she had a massive coronary and was dead before she hit the floor. It was a tremendous shock and hit us very hard, but in retrospect, it is easier to accept than having to go through the pain of watching someone deteriorate day by day over a very long time. You see the pain in their eyes of not understanding what is happening to them and possibly knowing it won't go away over time when it's a long term situation. I think it would have been far more painful if I had to go through what you are going through. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
holyjohnson Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 continued Prayers brother. i hope her passing is peaceful. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deputy tom Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 More prayers sent. tom. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ASH Posted May 27, 2019 Author Share Posted May 27, 2019 (edited) update - this morning at 2am we got the call my wife's mom passed to the other side, she went in her sleep . she lasted longer then everyone thought , i would like to wholeheartedly thanks everyone who prayed and sent well wishes , she had not woken up in 3 days and could not talk the last week , she is in heaven with my mom prolly cutting the rug and hanging out , again thank you . ash pic with all the girls at a better time Edited May 27, 2019 by ASH 3 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tous Posted May 27, 2019 Share Posted May 27, 2019 Condolences for your loss, amigo. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minervadoe Posted May 27, 2019 Share Posted May 27, 2019 Sorry to hear. Best wishes. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NPTim Posted May 27, 2019 Share Posted May 27, 2019 Thankful for a peaceful passing. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bish1309 Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 Sorry for your loss. The end of another life story. May she R.I.P. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deputy tom Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 She is resting easy. Good thoughts sent. tom. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pipedreams Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 May she R.I.P. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
holyjohnson Posted May 29, 2019 Share Posted May 29, 2019 Condolences and Prayers to you and yours. may she R.I.P. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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